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When a loved one is suffering from depression, your first thought is how do you help them? You need to know the right things to say and do however, or else you may just make it worse. To help someone with depression, the first thing you should do is study depression. Learn all about the symptoms, treatments, and any other information you find useful. You will want to understand what the person is going through before you just jump in and try to help. The more you learn about what your loved one is going through, the better chance you have of being able to help them.
Do not put all your time into it and make it too stressful on yourself. If you start to feel overwhelmed, back off a little and take some time for yourself. You will not be able to help them if you start to feel stressed out as well. Someone who is depressed needs someone who is willing to listen and shows a lot of support, so be as reliable and understanding as you can. Do not judge the person in any way and show them that you are there for them.
When you are helping someone with depression, these feelings can often rub onto you. Do not bottle up all of your feelings. You may start to feel sadness, frustration, or even anger. Talk to someone who will be able to help you and join a support group if necessary. Do not try to cheer them up by telling them to be optimistic. Work on everything step by step.








